Good Choice?

[chocobox25]

ok i need to know if i'm making a good choice.

i'm going out wit a girl that makes me feel safe and that i like, BUT i found out my ex still loves me...and i still love her. my current gf is completly sane and different than i am...but my ex she'll beat me, cut me, bit me, and stuff like that. well i'm crazy enough to like when she does that stuff to me. my current gf doesnt do those kinda things to me, and refuses to. so i think i'm gonna go back to my ex...am i making the right choice?

[Sakaki]

Hmm, love, the most complex of emotions. It's really a tough choice that only you can make, no matter what you decide, one of them is going to get hurt, it's inevitable, sadly. I'm honestly not to good with the topic, but I can offer a small amount of advice, though very small. I think you should go with the one you have the most feelings for. You could go back, but the feelings could die out, and you would realize that you really wanted to be with the other one, then it'd be too late. It could also work vice versa. That's all the help I can offer for your situation. I'm sorry if it doesn't make the choice any easier.

[chocobox25]

thank you it...helped me realize something...so you helped a lot...thank you...so much

[Gondor Reficul]

Well....

It depends. Does your ex give you what you truly desire? Do you really want what she offers? Is the safety and comfort your current girlfriend gives you not what you truly want? Do you truly love your girlfriend? Just ask yourself these questions if you haven't already. The answer isn't always easy to find...I can't say you're making the right choice...but I can't say you are...it's really all up to you. It's all up to your deepest feelings. If you ever have a doubt or question about anything related to this all....don't be afraid to ask me, Yoherz, or anyone else you can trust.

[chocobox25]

*bows* thank you...so much...you dont know how much you guys are helping me

[Gondor Reficul]

At least I could help someone...now I just need to handle my own issues.

[Black Mage]

Well if you have become an ex with this girl before it could happen again right? If you 2 loved each other so much why are you ex's? Maybe think on that a bit before going back to her. If i were in the situation personally i would stay with the current girl. Your ex has already been hurt i assume when you broke up theres no need to hurt 2 girls in this. Thats just the way i see it, of course i could have read you completely wrong. Sorry if i didnt help.

[chocobox25]

no you did help...everything even if its just a little word...it'll help...thank you

[Gondor Reficul]

Well hope for the best outcome possible, no matter what you choose...just don't do something stupid or something that you'll regret.

[Yoherz]

Here's a little exercise that I've found usually helps. Clear your mind of everything.
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Now, which of the girls comes to mind first?
Whichever it is, is the one you have more feelings for. Even if it was only for a split-second before the other one, you still have greater feelings for that one.
Though, also take into consideration (after your feelings) how they feel about it and if they'll stay with you.

Other than this, I don't really have much else. Hope it helped. I can't have my grandson heartbroken because then he won't fight as well, and I wanna kick his a** when he's at full strength.